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10 December 2019

Well, that was a dark year! (I’m back!)

After a long absence and a very dark year…I’m back. Even with that, I found much strength, joy, and inspiration throughout this challenging last year. In this video, I’d like to share with you the reason for my absence and what I’ve learned because of it.

I want to share with you the journey that I’ve been on for the past year. In November of 2018, I was at my office and I received a phone call from an ambulance driver who told me my ex-husband, Tim, was having heart failure. They were taking him to the hospital. Many of you who have been following my blogs for many years, will know that my husband and I split up over four years ago at that point. But we have remained very, very close friends. I dropped everything and rushed to the hospital. He was having some strange seizures. We didn’t know what was happening. Every time he went into a seizure, I held his hand tightly and I said, “Tim, don’t you leave us. We need you. Don’t you go anywhere.”  I was desperately wanting him to live.

It was terrifying. I asked the doctors if he was having a heart attack and the doctors told me he’s having some signaling issues in the brain. They didn’t know what was happening at this point.

And that’s when I knew.  You see, earlier that year  Tim had been diagnosed with a very small, slow-growing glioma brain tumor in his brain. They did an MRI and sadly the MRI confirmed our worst nightmare, that in fact the tumor was growing. We discovered that it was a highly malignant grade three incurable brain tumor, the type that was also unresponsive to chemotherapy and radiation. When he became too sick to take care of himself, my daughters and I moved him back into my home and we took care of him until he died in August this year.  

So why do I share this with you?

I share this with you to let you know that this is where I’ve been. I have been a caregiver for the past year: taking care of my ex-husband, taking care of my children, and working with friends and family to do the best we could to ensure that Tim’s final months were good ones. It was an important job and I wanted to dedicate myself to that.

What did I learn?

I have learned, over the past number of months, that I have incredible gratitude for the training that I have in positive psychology, which is the scientific study of psychological wellbeing. I really don’t know how people get through life, get through these traumatic events, get through these very challenging, difficult times, get through it all, without the training that I’ve had. I have 10 years of training in mental toughness, training on resilience, training on wellbeing and happiness, and how to stay psychologically healthy, and I still found it incredibly difficult. But I also stayed strong and resilient and was able to feel joy and a great sense of purpose.

Mental Health is important

Recently, I went to a conference on mental health and there was not one moment of discussion about mental health. It was all about mental illness. It was about how do we manage mental illness? How much is mental illness costing us? How do we get access to services for people who are mentally ill? It was all about mental illness, which is good. We want people to be able to get help if they’re mentally ill, but who’s talking about mental wellbeing? Well, that’s what my blog is about. It’s about giving you science-backed information about what keeps us healthy, what keeps us strong, what keeps us resilient, what keeps us joyful, regardless of what is going on in our lives.

I am going to be inviting experts in to do interviews with me that I’m really excited about.

I will be talking about how to take all of this great knowledge and research and apply it within a workplace to create flourishing workplaces.

I will talk to parents about parenting strategies for how you can help your children.

And I’m going to of course be talking about how you can incorporate a lot of this science and research into keeping yourself healthy, and whole, no matter what is going on in your life.

I am so happy to be back. I am thrilled. I would love to hear from you if you have ideas or topics you would like me to explore.

Happy holidays, everybody, and enjoy your time with your friends and your family! I hope 2020 is your best year ever! 

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I loved Louisa Jewell’s Flourishing 101 workshop series. I learned so much about happiness, positivity and how to increase both. I have so many new tools to use and am able to refer to them whenever I need to. It’s been extremely useful and I recommend it to anyone!

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The flourishing 101 course was an eye opener. When you look for the positive around you, guess what you actually find more of the positive. It?s the power of intention. I discovered how I could use my top strengths to create more success in my personal life and career. Sometimes what we are naturally good at we take for granted. This course will change how you interact with others and bring more positivity

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Thank you again so much for the excellent session! It is so valuable and pertinent and, as I mentioned at the beginning, theoretically grounded and also practical – a rare and wonderful combination.

Valerie Ward

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Thank you again for another great webinar. You and Shannon are both so engaging. It is rare in a webinar to actually feel that we are all in the room together. Somehow you both pull it off with your deep knowledge, warmth and energy. Your sessions offer a lot of value. The content is clear and compelling, and the exercises are highly relevant and immediately useful. I’m really enjoying taking the time to immerse myself in this more fully. I have taken webinar courses from other organizations and they could learn a thing or two from you and Shannon about effective webinars! You are doing important work. Nicely done.

Carolyn Meacher

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Louisa has the unique ability to engage a diverse audience with her expertise, humour and engaging style. As our key note speaker she enlightened the audience on the science of happiness and how happiness effects our well-being. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive; guests were inspired and delighted to listen to such a knowledgeable professional about a topic that everyone craves to know more about. I would recommend Louisa as a key note speaker, she is truly one of a kind!

Roz Baker

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Annalise Iten

Director Job Search Program

Plain and simply speaking, you were a hit! Your morning keynote address set a meaningful, happy, and upbeat tone for the rest of the conference. Our staff responded to your presentation style and message because it is what we needed to hear and feel at this time. We are a great College, with great staff, and May is the end of a full and active year of classes and programs, successes and challenges. Thank you for helping to make our conference a great success.

Brian Benn, M. Ed.

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Louisa was my instructor for The Flourishing Center’s CAPP (Certificate in Applied Positive Psychology) course held in Toronto Canada. She was excellent in her delivery and included many different approaches to teaching and learning which helped me retain the information better than any other course I have taken. Her enthusiasm and commitment to her work is an inspiration and she is brilliant at what she does. Thank you Louisa for opening up the world to brand new possibilities for me. You are a gem in the world of positive psychology and beyond!!!!

Barbara Santen

Registered Midwife & Relationship Coach

You can’t help but feel better about yourself after spending some time with Louisa. Her energy and enthusiasm is infectious, mix that with her engaging teaching style and you have the ideal learning environment for anyone interested in positive psychology. I have been blessed to learn from Louisa in a classroom and conference setting and I can honestly say that she has changed my life.

Glendale Reyes

Bboy League

Timely and well-written, Jewell helps translate complex research into a book that is understandable, practical, and vital for not just surviving the modern world, but remaking it. Amidst all the competition, demands upon our time, and societal pressure, Jewell provides a clear path forward, not only for you but for girls and women everywhere striving to define success and worth for themselves.

Shawn Achor

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Tom Rath

Louisa delivered a fantastic workshop on the topic of personal resilience and learning to embrace failure. Her session was refreshing, entertaining and very pertinent to our work with students.

The strategies she provided are ones we can apply right away. Our time with her simply flew by! I highly recommend Louisa as she is both an expert on and shining example of the power of positive psychology.

Jen Tigno

Manager, Advising & Learning Skills Services, Academic Advising & Career Centre

It would have taken me months of independent study to learn what I have learnt in just six short weeks. The classes were lively, engaging and down to earth. The practical examples and stories made the research come alive.

I especially loved the home happiness boosters turned my A-ha Moments into easy action steps with big impact. Flourishing 101 made a positive impact on my life and has given me powerful resources that I will continue to use daily.

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Shirin Khamisa

Career counsellor & Certified ICF Coach – Careers by Design

The Watercooler sessions that you offer have meant the world to me during this most challenging time in our lives. From the coronavirus to the Black Lives Matter movement, to political unrest, this is an unprecedented time in history. I am so thankful for your generosity and your teachings. You truly are a gift! Your sessions have kept me grounded and working towards being resilient, with a new awareness around the importance of well-being in everyday life and in the most trying of times. The tools you share and the way you explain them and then allow us to practice them, has been invaluable. What you’ve taught me, I’ve passed along to friends and family and in turn, helped them too. So your teachings are multiplied and touch more people than you know! A heartfelt thank you to you, Louisa!

Diane Pincus

I had long struggled with my lack of motivation and my fear of the world. I didn’t have enough confidence in myself to start conversations with strangers or to try new things. I was unhappy with the small and empty way I was living my life and I wanted to make a change, but I didn’t know how or if I could. I found the answers I was looking for in this course.

It opened my eyes to the traps I was falling into and it gave me the knowledge and more importantly, the strategies I needed to overcome them. Once I started to apply some of those strategies and to do the exercises, I started to have a more positive outlook. With that new attitude, I embraced the findings and philosophies the workshop presented and gained the courage I needed to grow into a more productive and resilient person. Now I feel more in control of my life and hopeful for my future. Friends and family have told me I’m lighter and more confident. I have mended bad relationships and accomplished long-term goals. I feel like I’ve finally left my state of arrested development behind and entered adulthood. I owe that to Louisa and Flourishing 101.

Collette Johns

The Resilience for High Performance seminar delivered by Louisa Jewell to our sales and services teams at Patient News was interesting, entertaining and highly effective. Louisa clearly has full command of the subject. She delivered the content, true to the theme of her book, with total confidence, wit and rigor. Leading up to the session, Louisa took the time to really get to know our company, team and objectives and brilliantly structured the afternoon to meet our specific needs. From individual character strength identification to uncovering the 6 pillars of wellness, the content really engaged and I received many overwhelmingly positive comments from session participants. What really resonated were the “actual tools” Louisa introduced to help attendees incorporate the learnings into real practice. I even heard one of our senior sales executives on the phone with a prospective client saying “I work with an amazing organization that really cares about people. We recently had an expert in Positive Phycology here to coach us on how to been more effective, productive and happy. She was fantastic”. I highly recommend Louisa Jewell to any organization wanting to enhance the performance and interconnectedness of their teams. The Resilience for High Performance program is for you!

Karen Galley

President, Patient News 

1) I felt that the PD with Louisa Jewell really had an effect on me in a very positive way. I could not stop talking and thinking about her discussions for a week or more after. It had such an impact on me that I spoke to my friends about that PD. I feel that our school needs these kinds of reminders in order to put ourselves on track and keep us conscious about our behaviors. I would love to continue to have her and listen to her and work. The best speaker and the most interesting topic I can remember.

2) I loved this PD session – more than any other previous PD. What made it unique was the universal applicability to all facets of life – family, work & personal. Ultimately, all of us working on personal growth and self-awareness will make us better role models, teachers, friends, parents, staff

Helen Gin

Middle School Principal

Southlake Regional Health Centre

Louisa was asked to present a full day workshop to our leadership group on Building Resiliency.

Louisa’s professionalism,  expertise,  engaging and interactive style, together with a unique sense of humor made the day not only very enjoyable and worthwhile, but very informative.  I had many leaders express gratitude and appreciation for the learnings  Louisa provided. In addition, prior to the workshop Louisa was very accommodating and flexible, working behind the scenes to help make the day productive.  If you are looking to educate staff or leaders on the topic of building resiliency, I  would definitely not hesitate in recommending  using  Louisa as your facilitator.  You will not be disappointed.

Christopher Cecchini

Vice President, Employee Experience and Chief Human Resources Officer